just came back from movie at cathay..

and please so not watch ‘death water’.. good point of making water a scary thing, but the plot was atrocious.. no link here and there, …just full of scary scenes

“when you cannot convince, confuse!” quoted from ah moon, which i thought was the best way to describe the movie.. ha!

all my friends who know me, know that i have a very bad time management! so my biggest resolution for the year would be, to be on time! (big smile to everyone )

anyway, i realised i haven’t blog about new year’s eve, so i’m gonna do it right now!

we met up in town for dinner and went down to hougang mall for kenneth’s countdown performance

took some random photos after the whole event, you can view them over at theurbanboyz.blogspot.com

we settled for supper at maxwell market for a little ‘new year gathering’.. but it was a bad choice to hang out late!

‘cos getting a cab on the early new year is a tough one! kenneth called and waited in the ‘calling queue’ for 15 mins and all he got was, “there is no cab available, thank you for calling….” wtf?!

the night rider was even worst; the crowd filled from the bus stop to the 1st lane of the road!

..not a very good way to start the new year, but yeap! that’s about it..

sidenote:
has anybody shopped in newurbanmale, or particularly that heeren branch? i recently went there to get the braziliano praia and the shopping experience there was….. WEIRD.

you are trying on the flip flops, and already with a sales person attending to you.. but all the other (big, muscular and tanned) guys working there, are all looking in your direction as if you’re some animal in the zoo..

i feel so small and awkward that i didn’t really wanted to stay in the shop for too long.. oh well, that’s one bad shopping day..

3 years in it and i’m still blogging on this very ground.. 3 years of memories, and 3 years of FENG FENG YU YU(wind wind rain rain, eh.. heck! non-chinese blogders please check with your friends)

anyway, it’d been from a chore to blog, to a passion to write the every next entry.. from a personal space in the world wide web, it has changed into a space for people to drop by as their daily reads..

although it still serves the same purpose as an online diary, it no longer carries its anonymity and i, as the blogger, holds the responsibility for what i write and post up here..

well, it’s fine! ‘cos as long as i don’t offend the law(especially when i’m living in singapore), i should be able to blog what i want….

….right?

NOT REALLY!

‘cos my blog has gotten to the level whereby every single word i write, seemed to hold so much of importance to anyone that might come across here..

taking recent event for example, a mere general statement may just affect somebody that is NOT even concerning the person..

i know there’s one type of friends we all HATE.. it’s those that make use of you, after which, he/she gets to know new friends, then *POOF*! the friend, that you thought was so nice to be with, simply hops to the new people that he/she sees..

and the ‘hopping-to-new-friends’ doesn’t stop with you.. it carries on when your “nice” friend sees new people!

well, i disregard them as friends.. they’re just cheap sluts..

which part of this excerpt(from my 18 dec post) is pinpointing on anyone? is there a name? is there even a physical description of anybody?

it’s just as good as saying:
“I HATE FAT PEOPLE” (disclaimer: i’m taking as example only. i don’t judge people by their size.)

anyway, how else can it be anymore general than that? ..you happened to be fat and reading my blog, AND SO you decided to think that i’m talking about you and start flaming me with your nonsense?

so it’s my fault for saying I HATE FAT PEOPLE? if you’re THAT sensitive, then you shouldn’t be reading anyone’s blog, or in fact, living in this world! let’s face it, there are alot more people making GENERAL comments like that..

IN FACT, how sure are you, when you think that i’m talking about you with a HE(SLASH)SHE in my description? are you not even sure of your own gender?

back to my point, my words are deemed to be so important to certain people..

is it also correct to say that the more you’re affected by my words, the more guilty you are? if you’re not like what i say you are (people who hops to new friends and abandon old ones), why get so agitated when you read that entry?

funny thing is, the culprit who flamed me wasn’t even anyone that i know of.. it happened to be the friend of “the person whom thought my general comment aiming at (once again) him/her”

and to think that the culprit was able to write about me as if he’d known me for years, it was downright hilarious..

is it yet another case of too-free-and-got-nothing-better-else-to-do? well, i just couldn’t be bothered.

enough said. Period.

updates later!

anyway, there’s a nice play coming up.. anyone interested to watch together? (20% discount on tix if book before 7 jan!)